Are You an
Expecting Mama?
Are you dreading this
next postpartum?
Was your last
postpartum horrible?
I know there were blissful moments. I know you fell in love with your baby. But you don't want to go down into the abyss this time.
You don't want
Feel out of control and helpless.
The isolation that encircles your postpartum when the giddiness of friends and family quickly fades.
Your partner feeling further away than you'd both like.
The long and dark abyss where you swear you would never do this again.
Postpartum feeling like a struggle compared to which pregnancy and birth were a breeze.
The exhaustive list of shoulds that run your day.
To be overwhelmed and in over your head, running endless loops leading nowhere.
Yet you also knew that you wanted to have more babies. You wondered how you were going to make it through another postpartum like the one you had previously. You wonder if postpartum is really supposed to feel like this or if there is another way. You dream of a slower, supported, connected postpartum one where there is more room for you.
More magic, more mystery, more being mesmerized by the baby you just brought forth.
More soaking and savoring and less hustle, hurry and pushing through. Deep down you know a connected, cared for and calming postpartum is your birthright and how it is meant to be. What if you’re knowing wasn’t just a wish but a sacred path - an initiation into an empowered postpartum.
What if your postpartum could truly feel different this time?
What if you felt loved, supported and cared for?
What if you felt truly held?
What if you could emerge from this inward portal feeling sure, connected to yourself, your baby, your partner and those closest to you?
It is possible.
A FOUNDATION LAID BEFORE YOU
A mother-centric postpartum means you at the center.
If you want a different postpartum you need a way — a foundation laid before you that allows you to take up space, to exist, to reorient yourself to the center. One that begins with YOU: your needs and desires at the center, allowing you to fully care for your baby.
The baby needs only one — and that one is you. You need the village. You deserve care, support and connection.
Creating space in the home based on your needs.
Navigating conversations around partnership roles and shifts within the coupleship — all aiming at keeping connection and intimacy.
Mapping your village, placing people based on your needs and their capacity, and building a bucket of resources for when the baby comes.
This is the care you were always intended to have. You were never offered this postpartum until now — but you have been yearning for this way of being held, seen, supported and cared for.
Here's what becomes possible
WHAT’S AHEAD
You begin taking up space again — you learn to prioritize your happiness and well-being.
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You experience the “village” you always
desired and longed for.
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You protect your bond with your baby by
protecting yourself and your energy.
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You move from chaos into a life of greater peace, clarity, and calm.
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You have someone on your team who gets you — where you feel known, held, and seen.
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You learn to receive without feeling
guilty, burdensome, or undeserving.
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HOW IT WORKS
Twelve weeks, six pillars,
one mother at the center
Bi-weekly planning, 12 weeks
We meet bi-weekly over a 12-week planning period, moving through six pillars of planning and integration — one pillar at a time.
The week between is yours: to prepare and complete the steps that turn your plan into reality.
Your off week
Ongoing text support
Once your baby arrives we stay connected through ongoing text support, so you're never navigating postpartum alone.
Birth integration call
We unpack and process your experience, and you are witnessed as you take in all that has transpired in such a short amount of time.
Closing ceremony
Before you fully emerge — usually around 12–16 weeks postpartum — we close this chapter with a ceremony honoring you, your body, your baby and the profound transition you've moved through.
Here’s what you receive inside The Becoming
1 (30 minute) Intro Consultation
6 (60 minute) 1:1 Planning Sessions
1 (60 minute) Birth Integration
1 (90 minute) Closing Session
Ongoing Text Support
(4–5 months)
Village Mapping Guidebook
Custom Postpartum Plan
valued at
$125
$1,500
$250
$375
$1,000
$97
$300
HOLISTIC POSTPARTUM PLANNING IS A TOTAL VALUE OF $3,647
But you can begin your postpartum with you at the center, for just:
$1,997
My second postpartum didn’t break me.
It woke me up.
I was moving around like I hadn’t just given birth. Performing. Perfecting. Pretending. I subscribed to the pattern I’d inherited without ever questioning it, because no one handed me a different one.
My second daughter required my insides to match my outsides.
There was a lot of misalignment.
I neglected myself. My body, my mental health, my children — they all paid for it. I lived in disconnection so deep I became a version of myself I barely recognized. And I watched the effects of that carry into her life.
That’s the part no one talks about.
Not the hard moments in postpartum. The ones that come after. The ones that ripple outward.
There’s something about the way postpartum has been handed down, mother to mother, generation to generation, that we inherit without ever questioning. Disappear quietly. Push through. Be grateful.
She is not broken. But the system causes damage.
By my third, everything was different.
Not spiritual woo-woo different. Actually different.
I stayed connected to myself. Not the performing self. Not the pretending self. The one underneath — the one checking in, asking how are we doing, what do we need, what is my body telling me.
I built a village. I asked for what I needed. I was met with no’s — and I asked anyway.
Meals were in the freezer. Broths were ready. My spaces were prepared with my healing in mind.
I created room for rest. For recovery. For being present with my kids.
This postpartum felt like ease.
Regulation. Tenderness. Coming home.
It was still messy. Tears from hard moments, and tears from deep gratitude. Both at the same time.
But I was at the center.
And the reflection of that lives in my daughter, in my body, in myself.
It began with one thing. Me, reorienting to myself. Knowing the baby needs the mother, and the mother needs the village.
Maybe you’re here now. Remembering how dark it got. Wondering if it has to be that way again.
It doesn’t.
This is why I created The Becoming — so you don’t walk into this portal alone, and you don’t come out of it having lost yourself again.
FAQs
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I get it - baby comes when they choose. We will pivot and work with what is in the moment based on your needs.. You will be fully supported.
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Ideally 20-24 weeks. This gives you time to integrate our calls and step into your center
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Yes.
If you’re coming in late, we’ll move through the six pillars in the weeks we do and rework the flow to align with what is. -
Absolutely. I highly encourage them to attend 2 of the calls. I understand that they may not. Partners are essential in supporting you and being a part of this transition. We will still go over those two particular pillars for you to have a guided and supportive conversation around this sacred portal that impacts everyone.
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On average: about 2 hours a week.
Some weeks are lighter; others will require more time such as meal prepping or tending to your spaces with love -
A postpartum doula is hands on support during the postpartum.
The becoming prepares you before birth - it brings you closer to your center, going into postpartum with clarity, tools to resource and a map on who and how people will support you based off your changing needs and desires. You will be able to know and name your needs to be able to ask and receive with clarity and gratitude.
Step into a Mother-Centric Postpartum
When you honor your needs, the world around you shifts.
Look, you can do what you’ve done before and hope that it will magically be different.
You can ignore your intuition and knowing - that soft whisper that this is not how it should be, that you deserve more.
You teach others how to treat you - let’s show them how you need (and deserve) to be treated in this sacred time.
Let’s create a standard of care that leaves no room for anything less than support, care, and being held.